Six of my favorite photos from this year Six years married to this amazing guy One of the biggest questions we get asked when people find out we're polyamorous is...why did you even get married? The answer to that is easy. I love NP. Irrevocably. With every fiber of my soul. We wanted to make … Continue reading Celebrating 6 Years!
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HPV-iversary
One year ago, I got a call from my doctor letting me know I was positive for HPV. I can remember that call last year it like it was yesterday. I felt scared and panicked. I felt ashamed and disgusted. Perhaps the biggest emotion - I. Felt. Alone. When my doctor called, she said "your … Continue reading HPV-iversary
Gearing up for Pride!
If any of you are near Woodstock, IL, make sure to stop by Woodstock PrideFest 2022 on Sunday June 12th from 12-5! Swing by the Paint Plus Hardware booth to grab your free Pride paint panel and mini roller kit! I've been hard at work making 1500 paint panels in 17 different Pride flag color … Continue reading Gearing up for Pride!
Why I Don’t Date Non-Poly Folks
If any of you were to ever come across any of my dating profiles, you'd notice the following statement at the top of my bio: "Only looking to connect with other polyamorous individuals" This didn't always used to be a hard boundary of mine but in the years I've been polyamorous, I've had enough bad … Continue reading Why I Don’t Date Non-Poly Folks
Openly Polyamorous in a Monogamous World
When did the world turn into such a mononormative place? Has it always been this way? Is it like this everywhere? Someday I'll really dig into research and look more into this...other time periods, other countries, other cultures, other species...but for now, I wanted to post a lighter blog outlining the challenges and benefits of … Continue reading Openly Polyamorous in a Monogamous World
Non-Hierarchical Polyamory as a Married Woman
I've experienced a lot of curiosity of how I'm able to practice non-hierarchical polyamory as a married individual. Just so we're all on the same page, let me start with a few brief definitions. To break it down, there are two main types of ways that coupled individuals structure polyamory: Non-Hierarchical Polyamory – strives to give … Continue reading Non-Hierarchical Polyamory as a Married Woman
HPV Plushie and New Posts Coming Soon!
Okay, I'm working on a handful of new posts to be released soon but in the meantime..... LOOK AT MY NEW HPV PLUSHIE!!! I've been in love with GiantMicrobes.com since a friend of mine had a giant, huggable herpes molecule back in undergrad. I really wanted the giant, huggable HPV but alas - they're sold … Continue reading HPV Plushie and New Posts Coming Soon!
New Relationship Energy
You met someone new! Maybe you're in the early stages of a new relationship, or maybe you're just starting initial conversations with a potential new partner. Everytime your phone buzzes you feel giddy when you see their name. It seems as though you simply can't get enough. How could it be that you have such … Continue reading New Relationship Energy
A Polyamorous Valentine
Love is in the air, especially so for polyamorous folks who may have multiple partners. While to some, Valentine's Day is just another Hallmark holiday people spend too much money on, I personally love it. Being polyamorous, I love love, and I love being able to share that with multiple partners. To me, Valentine's Day … Continue reading A Polyamorous Valentine
The Polyamorous Millennial 